This guide covers exactly what to wear for family photoshoot success. You’ll get real-life mom tips to make outfits comfy, stylish, and stress free. Includes advice for moms, dads, babies, and more, all tailored for Bay Area weather and family vibes.
This post breaks down everything you need to know about what to wear for family photoshoot sessions. Includes real client stories, outfit formulas, what not to wear, weather tips, and color palettes that work beautifully in Bay Area light. Easy, helpful, and straight from a local mom and photographer.



Feeling good in what you wear sets the tone for your entire session. I’ve seen it firsthand: when you feel awkward in your outfit, it shows. When you feel confident, cozy, and like yourself? Magic happens.
One mom told me, “I picked a flowy dress with ruffles because it looked beautiful online but I ended up feeling huge and uncomfortable in every pose. I wish I had gone with something simpler that felt like me.”
Another session? Dad and son showed up in tees during a breezy October sunset. The kid was shivering and didn’t want to smile. If dad had chosen layers or a cozy sweater, that warmth would’ve helped everyone.
Let’s prevent these moments with easy outfit wins.



Mamas, I always recommend you start with your outfit. Your family will build around YOU.
My favorite outfit tips for moms:
One client said, “I finally found an outfit I actually liked being photographed in. No stiff jeans or weird cuts. I felt like myself.”



Dads don’t need anything fancy, just something put-together and comfortable.
Here’s what works every time:
Avoid graphic tees, logos, or loose athletic gear. Think casual but clean.
A little polish goes a long way and helps the whole family feel cohesive.


Trust me, if your kids are freezing or itchy, you’ll see it in every photo.
What works best:
One mom told me, “My toddler didn’t want to leave because he felt so comfy and got to wear his favorite sweater.”


Here are a few places I recommend browsing, depending on your budget:
Neutral doesn’t mean boring. Think cozy, soft, earthy.
Try these color palettes:
Choose 2–3 tones and mix them throughout the family. Add texture with knits, linen, or corduroy. Avoid dressing everyone in the same shade. Coordinated > matched.


Clients love this because it’s simple:
Your family should look like YOU, just slightly elevated.



Outfits can help or distract. These tips save you from regret:
Skip these:
And please dress for the weather. Don’t let cold shoulders ruin a beautiful photo moment.

Outfits aren’t about impressing Instagram. They’re about feeling good, moving freely, and capturing your real-life magic.
Great outfit choices feel:
Bonus tip: Lay everything out on your bed and snap a photo. If it looks good together in a flat lay, it’ll photograph well together too.

Let’s keep it simple. Send me photos of what you’re considering. I’ll help you pull it all together. This is part of what I do as your photographer so you don’t have to second-guess.
Want to skip the outfit overwhelm and just feel taken care of? Reach out to me and I’m happy to share some images and links to outfits for your session.
My goal is to make family photography easy, joyful, and stress-free because this season is fleeting. And you deserve photos that feel like your family.
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Welcome Friends, I'm Ellen
I am a lifestyle and natural light photographer based in San Mateo County, serving families across the San Francisco Bay Area and Peninsula. I regularly photograph families in San Mateo, Burlingame, Palo Alto, Redwood City, and surrounding Peninsula communities.
I specialize in family, newborn, and maternity sessions that take place at home or outdoors, capturing genuine joy, connection, and beautifully candid moments.
Along with photography, I also offer cinematic highlight films to bring your family’s story to life in motion.
My sessions are fun, easy, and well guided. I use simple prompts and natural posing so you can relax, enjoy being together, and let me document the love and energy that make your family unique.
Photographer. Fitness lover. Wife. MOm. world traveler.
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