Here are my top 5 tips for family photos with toddlers—because let’s be honest, toddlers don’t exactly stick to a shot list.
Photographing young kids can feel like a full-body workout (think squats, sprints, and deep breaths). But that’s exactly why I love sharing tips for family photos with toddlers. With a little prep and the right mindset, your session can be joyful, flexible, and full of beautiful, candid moments you’ll actually want to frame.
Why These Tips for Family Photos with Toddlers Matter
When toddlers are involved, it’s all about capturing who they are—whether they’re hiding behind you, racing around, or exploring the enviornment. That’s why my tips for family photos with toddlers focus on fun, not stiff poses, and spontaneity over perfection. Let’s dive into my top 5:
1. Choose the Right Location for Young Children
Scouting the right location is one of the most important parts of planning a smooth, successful family session—especially with toddlers in tow.
Start by thinking about your children’s ages and energy levels. If your toddler is still finding their balance (or loves to run in every direction), an open, calm space like a grassy field or quiet park is usually best. A busy downtown street or crowded trail? Probably not ideal. You want a spot that feels safe and relaxed—not one where you’re constantly redirecting or chasing.
Then, consider what your family genuinely loves to do together. Is your ideal weekend spent at the beach? Or do you love a laid-back park picnic? Choosing a location that reflects your family’s personality helps everyone feel more at ease—and it shows in your photos. A beach session where your toddler can splash barefoot is a win for everyone.
Lastly, let’s not forget traffic and timing. The San Francisco Peninsula is beautiful—but traffic is not. We want everyone to arrive relaxed, not frazzled from a long commute. Let’s choose a spot that’s easy to access at your scheduled session time with parking available so your family starts the session happy and ready to play.
2. Set the Tone: Prep + Play
Talk it up before the session. Let your toddler know it’s going to be a fun outing where they get to play and take a few photos. Keep it upbeat and relaxed—something like, “We’re going to go play and take some fun pictures!”
Beforehand, make sure everyone’s eaten, nap routines are followed, and energy is in a good place. A happy, rested toddler is key! During the shoot, we’ll explore, snack, play simple games, and take breaks whenever needed. That way, the whole experience stays lighthearted and enjoyable for both kids and grownups.
I also intentionally built flexibility into the session. While one child explores, I might photograph the parents or focus on sibling solo shots. These rotating pairings give everyone a chance to stretch, regroup, and stay engaged without overwhelm.
Here’s a simple toddler-friendly game plan:
- Before the session: Let your toddler know they’ll be taking pictures. Keep it positive and casual—“We’re going to play and take some fun photos!”
- During the session: Celebrate everything. If they stand still for 2 seconds? Big cheers. If they smile? You’re basically winning the parenting lottery.
- Afterward: Plan something fun. Post-photo ice cream is always a hit.
And please don’t stress if things don’t go “perfectly.” Photoshoots are meant to be fun.
3. Snacks & Naps
Kids (and parents!) are always happier with full bellies. If your child usually naps, try to stick to that routine before our session—it truly makes a difference. Once we’re shooting, we’ll keep things playful and relaxed. We’ll explore, take breaks, and follow your kids’ lead to keep the experience fun and low-pressure.
It also helps to pack a few kid-friendly snacks—nothing too messy, but definitely satisfying. Some of my favorites:
- Bamba Peanut Snacks — peanut butter crunchy puffs
- Seven Sundays Cereal Cocoa — sweet and crunchy cereal
- Amara Organic Smoothie Melts — soft, quick, and mess‑free
- Apple slices + cheese cubes — simple, filling, and tasty
Keep them in a small pouch, ready to go—snacks before and during the session help keep everyone happy and engaged.
4. Dress for Comfort & Personality
Yes, I love a coordinated look, but your toddler should be comfortable. No stiff collars or itchy seams. Choose clothes that feel good. When you and your toddler feel confident, your family’s personality pops in the photos. Think soft tones, breathable fabrics, coordinated styles (but not matchy-matchy), and a fun pop of color—especially if it reflects your family vibe.
This sweet girl rocked a dress and cardigan with ease—and look how joyful she is!
Check out these sites for outfit inspo:
- Carter’s for toddler boy outfits for photoshoots
- Gap for toddler dresses for photoshoot
- Madewell for something photo-ready for you, mama
5. Follow Their Lead
Tips for Family Photos with Toddlers: Go with the Flow
The secret to a great family photo session with toddlers? Let them take the lead. Seriously. When we follow their energy—whether they’re sprinting ahead, hiding behind your legs, or flopping in the grass—those unscripted moments are often the most meaningful.
My goal is to capture your family and your child just as they are, so you can look back and remember the quirks, milestones, and joy of this season.
Because let’s be honest—toddlers have short attention spans. That’s why I treat sessions more like a playground than a photo booth.
We move from hugs…
…to exploring…
…and eventually, we find that sweet spot of connection, play, and genuine fun.
Tips for Family Photos with Toddlers: Final Thoughts
Good planning and preparation go a long way when photographing young children. Choosing the right location, comfortable outfits, and even packing the right snacks can make all the difference.
And if you’re looking for a little extra help—whether it’s outfit inspiration, snack ideas, or playful photo prompts—I’ve got you covered. My goal is to make your family photo session feel fun, relaxed, and joy-filled from start to finish.
Contact me to start planning your session—I’d love to hear from you!
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