Here are my top 7 Tips for Family Photos with Toddlers — because let’s be honest, these little ones don’t exactly follow a shot list.
As a mom to an energetic toddler boy, I completely get how tough it can be to pull off family photos. You’re probably wondering—will my kid stay up for a sunset shoot? What if they skip their nap? What if they have a full-on meltdown in the middle of it all? Trust me, you’re not alone.
Photographing toddlers can feel like a full-body workout—but that’s exactly why I created these Tips for Family Photos with Toddlers. With a little prep and the right mindset, your session can be relaxed, joyful, and full of real, candid moments you’ll want to frame forever.
Why These Tips for Family Photos with Toddlers Matter
When toddlers are involved, it’s all about capturing who they are—whether they’re hiding behind you, racing around, or exploring the enviornment. That’s why my tips for family photos with toddlers focus on fun, not stiff poses, and spontaneity over perfection. Let’s dive into my top 7:
1. Choose the Right Location for Young Children
Scouting the right location is one of the most important parts of planning a smooth, successful family session—especially with toddlers in tow.
Start by thinking about your children’s ages and energy levels. If your toddler is still finding their balance (or loves to run in every direction), an open, calm space like a grassy field or quiet park is usually best. A busy downtown street or crowded trail? Probably not ideal. You want a spot that feels safe and relaxed—not one where you’re constantly redirecting or chasing.
Then, consider what your family genuinely loves to do together. Is your ideal weekend spent at the beach? Or do you love a laid-back park picnic? Choosing a location that reflects your family’s personality helps everyone feel more at ease—and it shows in your photos. A beach session where your toddler can splash barefoot is a win for everyone.
Lastly, let’s not forget traffic and timing. The San Francisco Peninsula is beautiful—but traffic is not. We want everyone to arrive relaxed, not frazzled from a long commute. Let’s choose a spot that’s easy to access at your scheduled session time with parking available so your family starts the session happy and ready to play.
2. Dress for Comfort & Personality
Yes, I love a coordinated look, but your toddler should be comfortable. No stiff collars or itchy seams. Choose clothes that feel good. When you and your toddler feel confident, your family’s personality pops in the photos. Think soft tones, breathable fabrics, coordinated styles (but not matchy-matchy), and a fun pop of color—especially if it reflects your family vibe.
This sweet girl rocked a dress and cardigan with ease—and look how joyful she is!
Check out these sites for outfit inspo:
- Carter’s for toddler boy outfits for photoshoots
- Gap for toddler dresses for photoshoot
- Madewell for something photo-ready for you, mama
3. Before the Session: Snacks & Naps
Kids (and parents!) are always happier with full bellies and solid rest. If your toddler usually naps, try to stick to that routine the day of your session—it really makes a difference. Make sure everyone has eaten beforehand, and aim for calm, low-key activities leading up to the shoot so your little one has energy to burn during golden hour.
A happy, rested toddler is key!
Start talking up the session in the hours beforehand. Let your child know it’s going to be a fun little adventure—something like, “We’re going to go play and take some fun pictures! You’ll meet Auntie Ellen and we’re going to have so much fun!” Keep it light and positive so your toddler feels excited (not pressured).
4. During the Session: Play & Fun
Once we start shooting, everything stays playful and relaxed. We’ll explore, take breaks, and follow your child’s lead to keep the vibe low-pressure and fun. I’ve photographed families with everything from newborns to three toddlers at once—so don’t worry, you’re in good hands. I can absolutely handle your high-spirited little ones!
I intentionally build flexibility into every session. While one child wanders or takes a break, I might photograph the parents, get sibling solo shots, or capture quiet in-between moments. These rotating pairings help everyone stay engaged, relaxed, and never overwhelmed.
It also helps to bring a few toddler-approved snacks—something satisfying but not messy. A few of my favorites:
- Bamba Peanut Snacks — peanut butter crunchy puffs
- Seven Sundays Cereal Cocoa — sweet and crunchy cereal
- Amara Organic Smoothie Melts — soft, quick, and mess‑free
- Apple slices + cheese cubes — simple, filling, and tasty
5. Make it a family date!
A photography session is more than just taking pictures for holiday cards or social media — it’s about being fully present with your family. This is dedicated time to slow down, dress up, explore together, and soak in the love and connection you share.
So treat it like a family date! Plan to have fun taking pictures and hanging out with “Auntie Ellen,” then head out for a sweet treat afterward. Who doesn’t love post-session ice cream?
And please—don’t stress if things don’t go “perfectly.” Photoshoots are meant to be fun, not flawless.
6. Tips for Family Photos with Toddlers: Why Full Sessions Work Best
You might be thinking a mini session is best because your toddler “won’t last long”—but I’m here to make the case for a full session (around 45 minutes to 1 hour). A full session allows time for everyone, especially toddlers, to warmed up and get in a natural groove. After photographing countless families with little ones, I’ve learned that everyone — especially toddlers — do extremely well and have so much fun during these sessions.
The magic happens as the session unfolds over time. Once we’re warmed up and the playfulness kicks in, the connection and love flow naturally—and that’s when the best, most heartfelt photos happen.
Remember, this is your family date. Let’s not rush it. Give yourselves the space to relax, explore, and truly enjoy this time together.
7. Choose a Family Photographer
Not every photographer specializes in working with young kids — and that really matters. Do your research. Look through a photographer’s portfolio and ask yourself: Do these photos feel like the kind of energy and connection I want for my own family?
I’ve worked with many families with toddlers, and I’ve learned that the best approach is simple: go with the flow.
The secret to a great family photo session with little ones? Let them lead. Whether they’re sprinting ahead, hiding behind your legs, or flopping in the grass, those unscripted moments often become the most meaningful images.
My goal is to capture your family exactly as you are—quirks, chaos, joy, and all—so you can remember the love and milestones of this season.
Toddlers have short attention spans, so I treat sessions more like a playground than a stiff photo booth. We move, we play, we laugh—and that’s where the magic happens.
Choose a photographer whose work reflects the style and vibe of what you want to remember.
Tips for Family Photos with Toddlers: Final Thoughts
Family photos with toddlers don’t have to be stressful. With a little preparation, the right mindset, and a photographer who truly understands kids, your session can be joyful, relaxed, and full of moments you’ll treasure for years.
These aren’t just photos—they’re memories of a season that’s as fleeting as it is beautiful. The wild giggles, the cuddles, the snack breaks, the unexpected detours… it’s all part of the story.
Ready to book your session?
If you’re ready to capture this season with joy and fun, I’d love to be your photographer. I invite you to check out my Family Portfolio to get a feel for my work. Contact me to start planning — I’d be honored to photograph your family!
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